Wednesday, August 15, 2018

As the flag unfurls..


Before the tricolor unfurls and the reverberations of the national song dissolve into the air, it is time to pause, reflect and savour the spirit of this country and its freedom.

We may have a handful amongst us who may have been part of the long struggle for independence or witnessed the blood baths on our soil years back. But the larger nation is the one born with the silver spoon of freedom, untouched by the butchery of partition, having only read accounts of freedom struggles or experienced the atrocities of colonial powers through what was conveyed on film reels.

And like any generation that was born into the lap of comforts, we too have been raised as a spoilt nation, unaware of the toil and blood that our forefathers sacrificed for the nation that we call our own. We have been raised with a sense of ‘entitlement’ to our freedom but not with the ‘responsibility’ that comes with this magical power of freedom. Our concepts of nation and nationalism are fudged, malleable, and manipulatable. The dream and passion that wove this country’s fabric together and celebrated the diversity that formed the embellishment to our intricate weave is now under looming threats.

We struggle with identities and ‘reference points’ and anything that deviates from the average is mocked, mobbed, eradicated or simply brushed under the carpet. Inclusiveness is a larger cultural impediment than it was thousands of years back. The rich cultural pedigree that we carry is now being trampled in the face of industrialization and ‘development’ (a term whose scope and definition is questionable).

The passion that fueled a string of provinces to unite into a nation seventy one years back needs to now be rekindled amongst us – for us to stand and fight for something that matters to the larger humanity, for us to contribute to the ambition that we set for ourselves seventy one years back, for us to celebrate our individualism and yet embrace our diversity with the same fervor. Else, before we realize it, we would have fought a full circle to finally reach the start of our pre-Independence.. a divided population that the East India Company encountered years back.

Of course there are strides and leaps that we can be proud of but the pride would be complete if we took the entire nation through this stellar journey – giving every individual and community the chance to participate in this journey and not leaving anyone behind with a deep sense of injustice, discrimination or bitterness. Then we shall finally find peace and growth in the folds of the tricolor!


Sunday, August 5, 2018

Friends for the Soul


They come as a motley..sprinkled here and there on your life journeys…spicing up your routine or simply omnipresent through your existence – the umbrella word of warmth called friendship!

Friends who hold your lifeline together -  from the ones with whom you shared your crayons, your ‘first crush’ stories, your ‘hostel bickering’, your ‘career conflicts’ and now to your ‘matrimonial and motherhood itches’ and all that comes in between.

We find them at intersections and promenades of our lives – in that crowded school bus dripping with ice cream on a scorching ‘academic’ afternoon..in the midst of a grueling dance practice..on a nervous college admissions day..while burning ‘corporate midnight oils’ or simply when you wait to pick your kid from school.

Friendship that germinates, roots itself and then spreads its shade over your life – giving you fleeting moments of freedom from the social jackets that we tailor for ourselves..the soothing voice that counsels and veers you off the frustrations that life sometimes throws on you..bringing the ‘fire’ and ‘fun’ elements into the drab that your days sometimes turn into!

Friendship sometimes also fill the fault lines created by blood lines and relationships that got thrust in your life by birth. The perfect panacea for the heartaches and headaches that you invite into your life ‘playing the family person’!

You cannot predict, measure, compare or reason it out – some humans that you chose as the anchor to your life storms ..some individuals you bonded and fused with and cannot still understand why..some buddies who strip you bare of your colour, creed and ‘garbs’ and touch the bundle of emotions that you can simply and effortlessly slip into..